Tagged: Ram Dass Book Discussion
March 21, 2021 at 11:35 am #3358Debra MurphyKeymaster
Inquiry 1 – After reading Ram Dass’ book, how do you feel it impacts your everyday life? Which of the exercises in the back of the book did you feel most helpful to you?
Inquiry 2 – “Instead of preoccupying ourselves with trying to get what we think we want or need, we’ll start to quiet, we’ll start to listen. We’ll wait for that inner prompting. We’ll try to “hear”, rather than decide, what it is we should do next. And as we listen, we’ll hear our dharma more and more clearly, and so we’ll begin tuning more and more of our acts to that place of deeper wisdom…”
Has this been your experience? What ways work for you in your practices to get quiet?
March 24, 2021 at 12:10 am #3364Katy CharoensatitParticipant
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Inquiry 2: Yes, this has been my experience. I think we have all experienced sometimes how difficult things can be when we are forcing them…which I think some force is good to help us move forward, but somethings just need to be left alone and things can be okay without us trying to fight it so much. I’m very much a “control freak”. I like things planned and yoga has really taught me to let somethings just be.
I have a story that I go back to. A few of years ago, we were at a temple in Thailand with my oldest daughter who was almost one at the time. Everyone was praying, it was very quiet. There were monks wearing orange robes lined up in the front of the temple chanting. My daughter was, of course, wanting me to stop holding her and to let her get down on the floor and walk. Of course, I was holding her tighter and trying to not set her down because I was worried that she was going to be disruptive. She wiggeled more and was getting upset. One of the monks walked over to me and said, “Let her be free.” So I did and she was fine. She didn’t disrupt anyone. I had in my mind that she would be loud or bother someone if I let her down so I was trying to control what I thought would happen, but once I just allowed for things to naturally happen, everything was ok.
I remember this story a lot, especially now that she is almost 8 and I have to remind myself that I have to let go and let her be free (sometimes ;).April 5, 2021 at 12:25 pm #3434Debra MurphyKeymaster
What a great story Katy! I’ve had my grandchildren with me in a Buddhist temple (Cambodia) and it was quite an experience. The sweetness of the monks towards the children was unforgettable….my grandchildren were pretty mesmerized by the experience.April 15, 2021 at 11:40 pm #3454Katy CharoensatitParticipant
Oh that’s so cool. Yes, definately a great experience.
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